Please pardon the baseball bat. I thought you were a Christian.
A quick story: a man and his infirmed father were at a local mall here in Nashville some years ago. The man was helping his father to their car so they walked arm in arm. Some local guys spotted them and assumed they were gay snuggling, so they shot them. I doubt the father and son even considered that someone would think they were gay, and never considered what might happen to them if they made it appear that they were gay.
I was reminded of that story because of this story that happened last Sunday: two Ecuadorian bothers were in New York and had been to a bar. They too were walking closely together and, as is the custom in Ecuador, they may have been walking arm in arm. Three men jumped out of a car and attacked them. One of the brothers escaped but the other had a bottle broken over his head and was beaten with a baseball bat. He died.
Now this:
The idea that Mike Huckabee seems to be expressing is that gay rights aren’t that big a deal because we homosexuals haven’t had to deal with the kind of violence that African Americans have. What Huckabee fails to recognize is that much of the reason we aren’t the victims of violence more often is that we hide that we are gay, something the families in the stories above didn't know either. But saying that we don’t deserve the same kind of civil rights movements as African Americans because we could stay in the closet to escape from violence is like saying that Anne Frank in didn’t need a civil rights movement because she could stay in the attic.
The guys in the two stories above didn’t know they had to live in fear because they’d never had to. Like Huckabee, they didn’t have an assumption that violence would follow if they stood too close to each other and appeared gay. I doubt Huckabee has thought about the threat of violence to people who could frequently seem gay because they are gay. Why should he? His life hasn’t depended on hiding.
But like those separate facilities and those issue of second class citizenry that Huckabee denounces for what they did to African Americans, the separate facilities and issues of second class citizenry that Huckabee espouses for people like me create the same permission to use violence that was used to justify hosing people and cracking open their heads in the 60s.
Huckabee brings up the “attack” on that old women, where someone brazenly slapped her Styrofoam cross out of her hand and equates that with the bias and violence used against gays ... and people suspected of being gay. He equates the very out Christian Church, the one that to which every President has proudly proclaimed his membership to, with homosexuality, to which no President and few elected leaders have been willing to admit membership to.
One has to wonder if anyone has ever been killed by strangers on the streets of America because someone mistook them for being Christian.
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"One has to wonder if anyone has ever been killed by strangers on the streets of America because someone mistook them for being Christian."
On American streets, probably not (although, if there are such incidents, I wouldn't at all be surprised to learn of them). But in other parts of the world (especially Arab/Muslim ones), yeah it does.
Personally, while I understand your ire at Huckabee, he's really a big old nothing. The way the world is today, it doesn't matter if you are black, white, gay, straight, male, female, Chirstain or Muslim, it's a violent place wherever you go. Hell, there are websites who's sole purpose, is the uploading of film clips, that show people of all races, genders and religions being assualted (perhaps even killed, since you don't know what happens to them after the film clip ends). And the only thing worse and more disturbing than the clips themselves, are the comments people who come to view them make on them.
So, Huckabee's lack of compassion towards the gay community, Scott, isn't all that much of a surprise. He's just rolling with the ways of today. There's really very little compassion or mercy in the world in which we live now, no matter what your sexual orientation (or gender, or race, or religion) might be. The basic thought of many people today is this: if you don't like something, beat the hell out of it. Is it any wonder why online interaction is so nasty and ruthless, when the "real world" is pretty much no different?
True and the same thing happens to gays there too ... of course, the US stepped in to negotiate a stop of the executions of the people accused of being heresy for being Christians but did not do the same for the executions of the homosexuals. The US is even now refusing to go along with a UN proposal to say that making homosexuality illegal is wrong while being fairly vocal on religious rights. Can you imagine a US President not signing up with the UN’s fight against religious intolerance?
Huckabee is a contender for the Presidency of the US. He has a TV show in the US. He influences policy of the Republican Party in the US, which will certainly be sending someone to the Oval Office at some point. He’s a better candidate than Palin. While it is true that bad things happen to people, it is also true that pointing out that someone important in the US is fostering those things is important. I have every confidence that President Huckabee would fight for the rights of Christians around the world. For me, however ...
I’m afraid we are going to have to differ on this point. I do not fear being attacked on the street unless it is over the issue of me being gay. You’re married. Do you ever fear that someone will beat you or that you’ll lose your job or that your house will be vandalized if someone finds out you’re married? I have the same odds of being mugged as just about anyone. The odds of you and me being mugged for our money are probably about the same. However, the odds of being attacked, fired, or having our homes vandalized because of our marriages are very different.
I will only note again that I am less cynical than you.
I've heard plenty of people try to justify their homophobia with "Well I don't care what they do so long as I don't have to see it..."
yeah, I just hope I'm not pushing the point too far. I'm mean, there have been huge advances since I was kid. The world has improved in ways that I never expected. Still, I can't help but to be afraid now and then.
The thing that spooked me is that, except for the location, the victims in your first story could have been me and my dad. Or worse, my brother and my dad. (We take turns helping my shop for my mom because he can't get around very well.) And even I, who had once been mistaken for being gay and hassled for it as a kid, would have been as oblivious to this danger as the men in your two stories.
But the thing that troubles me most is how people will rationalize the worst acts because the victims were gay or perceived to be gay. The thugs in the first story SHOT AN INFIRM AND DEFENSELESS OLD MAN, for God's sake! And the very idea that a state majority could take away preexisting rights of a smaller group should be repellent to Americans, but apparently the fact that the smaller group was gays seemed to make it A-OK, and they passed Prop 8.
And the reason that blacks in the 60's were more frequently victims of violence than gays today was the same reason that the World War II internment camps held more Japanese-Americans than German-Americans. In both cases, the latter group found it easier to conceal themselves.